Birds that flock together shit together - or within the same vector. Let's break it down a little bit more. Female birds that flock together probably shit together and verbal vomit together like a herd of cows.
Point being is this. Let not the opinion of others be that of your own. Girls that talk in their tight little group probably hold the same opinion of maybe that of another person whether good or bad. The Oh yeah, I feel you GF. We're BFFs forever. I classify it as a case of high and mighty yuppiness. Girls that tend to dress the same, shop in the same places, coffees together, very SATC, the sudden urge to fulfill certain life point targets, eg: traveling, GOSSIP. Not that it's wrong but do not place judgement upon others on what was discussed within your inner circle. Other's beef with someone is not your fight to begin with. Moral support and all that crap would only indicate insecurities on your part. The need for others to validate your opinion. The need to gain approval and the nods of "yes, I think you are right and she's wrong" or to belong in a group.
Gasp - or the need to belong in a "cool" group.
Would one rather adopt an identity of a cool group - an identity that's shared with gazillion others or one of your own. Maybe that's how a certain style gets the in-fashion certification. Ohh that looks soo cute on you - maybe not necessarily look ohh soo cute on another. But nooo, we hang out in a group, we tend to dress as twins. Doesn't help that we shop in the same places! Let's get demographical. What's hot now is always on every other person. Think of this summer's season. Girls - gladiator sandals, heels, maxi dresses. Guys - those flat bedroom slippers with tight 3/4 quarts. A more than heavy girl/guy set with more than heavy thighs and calves will not suit this summer season's look. But they squeeze and I do mean squeeze themselves in. Is putting a shower stopper on your blood circulation more important?
Yes - all these thoughts from just probably bump ins with a group of people and the lack of acknowledgement from them. Friends now foe? Not that I need a 1 hour conversation - just a simple hi. What's hiding in the closet?
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